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  August 26, 2008

Vintage Me: Trevor Through the Ages
Filed Under "Trevor's Life"


Trevor in costume as Mercutio in Romeo and Juliet (11th Grade)

I was interviewed for a documentary about gay male culture and masculinity, and afterwards the filmmaker requested that I try to dig up some old photos of me for the project. It was perfect timing, as I was interviewed last week just before I was to fly home to North Carolina for a day before my cousin's wedding (more on that in a future post!). I dug through my parent's dozens of photo albums and came up with these gems. My BFF Karen from high school (the nurse in R&J above, to my right, and who accompanied me to junior prom) also donated a few to the cause. I couldn't help but share!


Easter.... 1989, I think? I was going for that gigolo look


'89 or '90 again. Fishing at the beach. I was trying to show that I was a pretty average boy


I LOVED to catch bugs! Eek, can't believe it now. But here's me with a freshly captured locust, I think.


Oh, the awkward middle school years. I believe I was 13 here -- so it would have been 1996. That's our new puppy, Dunhill. He sadly passed away last year.


Me and Vanessa in high school! And my fugly blonde hair. Oy vey. Probably 1999 or 2000.


Oof. Junior prom with Karen. She had just come back from Miami (hence her skin tone). 2000.


Who's that cutey in the orange sweater! Senior year chorus trip, 2001.


2001, I think. I wore this gem of an outfit when my grandparents came to visit. No, really.


Oh happy chorus line! Fresh from the chorus awards. 2001.


Probably 2001? Maybe 2002. One of my birthdays; probably 18 or 19.


Tags: coming out, gay male culture, high school, North Carolina, the South
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  August 22, 2008

Advocate to go Monthly, "Get Better Writers."
Filed Under "LGBTQ Politics"

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The Bay Area Reporter is reporting that The Advocate will scale back to a monthly edition, after many (many) years of being biweekly. The comments from the new editor are very interesting, including saying that he doesn't think they'll be featuring straight entertainers anymore and that they will have more news inside:

"I don't think there is a need for a biweekly magazine anymore with the Web," Barrett said. Barrett added that the magazine will be thicker, with a heavier paper stock. "We will have more room for bigger stories and we're going to get better writers," he added. "You will see more news in the magazine."

[snip]

Among other changes Barrett has in store is a move away from covers featuring entertainers; for example, he said that he doesn't think the magazine needs to feature a cover shot of straight man who is playing a gay role. And of course, the question of what it's like to kiss a man," Barrett said, referencing a frequent question posed to straight actors in such interviews. "I don't think our readers want to read those stories anymore," he said, adding that those features were needed in the 1990s, when it was validating to many LGBTs.

Interesting! Maybe there's still hope left for the magazine! For years now, it's slid down the tubes with less and less interesting material. Still, when me and freelance journies chat, we recognize that it's perhaps the only national go-to if you want to get your voice heard by the big guns in the LGBT world. The only catch of course is lately they've only been publishing pretty crappy stuff. Maybe that will change?

(Via Joe. My. God.)


Tags: Bay Area Reporter, LGBT politics, The Advocate
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  August 21, 2008

Me on "Getting it on with Bonnie"
Filed Under "Sexual Health"

My dear friend Bonnie Zylbergold interviewed me recently for her webcast titled, "Getting it on with Bonnie" as part of her work worth with the National Sexuality Resource Center's "American Sexuality Magazine." Our interview is really quite funny and fabulous. We chat about my "Beyond Masculinity" project; my life growing up queer; masculinity and gay men; and the gays in general. Ch-Ch-Check it out!


Tags: American Sexuality Magazine, Beyond Masculinity, masculinity, National Sexuality Resource Center, sexual health
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  August 19, 2008

Packing...
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My last night in San Francisco is upon me! Tonight I meet up with Jen and Bonnie for a farewell dinner before I'm off, back to North Carolina. Oy! What a beautiful summer it's been! So many good memories. So many good friends. I'll miss ya, SF! But I can't wait to get back in the action, and start writing up my research project on bottoms that I've been working on here in SF for the past three months. Good times!

In any case, I may be slow to post over the next few days as I make my way back from San Francisco to North Carolina, to then turn around and drive to Virginia for my cousin's wedding, only to then leave quickly to drive to Michigan! Phew! And then of course three days of graduate instructor orientation begins THE VERY NEXT DAY. Fuck that!

xoxo

Trevor


Tags: Michigan, North Carolina, San Francisco, University of Michigan
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Hottie of the Day: Adrian
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Adrian's a DJ in San Francisco and generally a hottie about town. I ran into him go-go-going at the Lookout last weekend. Just found the photo on my memory card. Oy vey! What a hottie!


Tags: Castro, gay male culture, gay men, San Francisco
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  August 18, 2008

In SF? Get on the Trojan Bus Wednesday
Filed Under "Sexual Health"

Just got this over e-mail from the folks at the NSRC. The event features my dear friend Bonnie Zylbergold, who just interviewed me for her video podcast segment "Getting it on With Bonnie" (should be up soon)! In the meantime, stop by the Trojan Bus Wednesday to say hello:

The Trojan Evolve bus stops at Justin Herman Plaza this Wednesday--and National Sexuality Resource Center (NSRC) will be there to capture it all, as folks immerse themselves in a multi-media experience designed to promote safer sex, condom use, and youth sexual responsibility. Now that's something we can get behind (or on top of). And we want you to join us.

Race against the clock to demonstrate responsible behavior with the Evolve Yourself Olympics, kick back in The Lounge and get your sex questions answered, or test your sexpert knowledge with a spin of the Evolve Triva Wheel.

Think you know more than us? NSRC and our own resident sexpert Bonnie Zylbergold will be there to go head to head with all comers--and we'll get it all on video.

The Trojan Evolve Tour kicked off this spring with a 40-foot long interactive bus, 40-foot wide IMAX-style rollercoaster ride, multi-stop comedy tour and concert experience, which was launched by the condom maker in response to an alarming decline in America's sexual health. With condom advertising restrictions on network primetime television in affect, and over a billion dollars spent on abstinence-only education that does not advocate condom use, the tour
is designed to engage Americans directly and calls on them to create change by personally pledging to use a condom every time and signing a petition for change.

Date: Wednesday, August 20th
Location: Justin Herman Plaza (Market Street/Embarcadero)
Time: 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM

More details are available on trojancondoms.com.


Tags: condoms, National Sexuality Resource Center, San Francisco
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UK Priest: Homosexuality = Demon Possession
Filed Under "Fucked Up Bullshit"

Oh, those wonky Catholic Brits! Not only is homosexuality caused by demonic possession, but it's contagious, y'all!

Offering what may be an explanation for the explosion of homosexuality in recent years, Fr. Davies said, "Among the causes of homosexuality is a contagious demonic factor."

Fr. Davies continues: "Even heterosexual promiscuity is a perversion; and intercourse, which belongs in the sanctuary of married love, can become a pathway not only for disease but also for evil spirits. Some very unpleasant things must be mentioned because young people, especially, are vulnerable and we must do what we can to protect and warn them," he told the Catholic Herald.

He also said that Satan is responsible for having blinded most secular humanists to the "dehumanising effects of contraception and abortion and IVF, of homosexual 'marriages', of human cloning and the vivisection of human embryos in scientific research." Extreme secular humanism, "atheist scientism", is comparable to "rational satanism" and these are leading Europe into a dangerous state of apostasy. "Only by a genuine personal decision for Christ and the Church can someone separate himself from it."

That explains this:

(Via Joe.My.God.)


Tags: homophobia, religion, United Kingdom
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  August 17, 2008

"Guyland" Website Up!
Filed Under "Trevor's Work"

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I was honored to be hired by the eminent sociologist Dr. Michael Kimmel to design the website for his new book, "Guyland: The Perilous World Where Boys Become Men." I do web design from time to time to bring in some extra cashflow, but this was an amazing opportunity to work with someone I admire so much!

The book looks to be quite excellent, with Gloria Steinam saying ""Michael Kimmel's Guyland could save the humanity of many young men—and the sanity of their friends and parents—by explaining the forces behind a newly extended adolescence. With accuracy and empathy, he names the problem and offers compassionate bridges to adulthood."

It's in stores next week! Check it out!


Tags: academia, masculinity, Sociology
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Manhunt Update: Chairman Jonathan Crutchley Resigns
Filed Under "Gay Men's Health"

crutchley.jpgWell that was fast! As has been all over the gay blogs, Manhunt co-founder Jonathan Crutchley donated the maximum amount to John McCain's presidential campaign. Now, Towleroad is reporting that he has resigned from Manhunt's board:

I received this statement made by founder Larry Basile (above, left) in my inbox late yesterday from an anonymous source at Manhunt and called Manhunt which confirmed its legitimacy. Please read the statement below:

***STATEMENT from LARRY BASILE

"There has been a depiction this week of MANHUNT being Republican. All my life, I have never voted to the right, and have always been generous to 20th Century Democrats, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, HRC, and the NGLTF.

"I was arrested at the Supreme Court and FDA in Act-Up actions, and was the founder of the Grass Roots Gay Rights Fund, which over the years has raised more than $800K. I was the Treasurer of Out Week magazine, which was a powerful force in its time. I began giving Obama donations in March 2007, and I have sent several checks that have yet to be reported. The hat and t-shirt I wear say 'Obama for President', as does the sign in front of my house. I refuse to live in a country that is so marred by war and hate. To me, Barak (sic) is by far the best candidate, probably better than we deserve.

"It should be known that Jonathan Crutchley's donation to McCain left the entire Board in disbelief. I am disappointed that we have lost some customers, and I understand the anger. It is too bad for the web site if we lose customers, but PLEASE never refer to me as a Republican. I consider it an offense.

"Earlier today, at the request of the Board, Jonathan has stepped down as Chairman. Sincerely, Larry Basile."

***END***

One last note: We never referred to Basile as a Republican. Also, though Crutchley has stepped down from the board, as far as we know he's still collecting money from thousands of gays and donating it to a presidential candidate who would deny them status as equal citizens.


Tags: gay male culture, gay men's health, hooking up online
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Trevor Hoppe



Trevor is a gay men's health activist and thinker, currently freezing in Michigan while getting his PhD in Sociology and Women's Studies.





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